I heard someone talking about how their first date was and it was a cute story. I was thinking about my own first date and decided to write it down. Mostly because the only other person in the house is currently coloring and can’t be pulled away right now to hear boring grown up stories.
I was in a theatre trope and this guy asked me if I wanted to have dinner after rehearsal. I figured it was a group thing because often the cast and crew get together after rehearsals to eat after a long practice. When I got in his car his other two friends were also riding, so I didn’t think anything of it. He dropped both his friends off at home because they both said they were busy, but I was hungry and still thought we were meeting other people. We got there and no one else was there and we are, but then one of the friends he dropped off at his house showed up. I asked if he wanted to go over and say hi or let him join us and he said no. He dropped me off at my house and I didn’t even hug him, just said bye and that I’d see him the next day at rehearsal. I saw his friend early the next morning and asked about my date. Date? I hadn’t gone on a date, I had gone to dinner with a friend, but he never asked me out on a date, he gave no real indication that he wanted to date me, or maybe he did and I missed it. The whole day I thought about if I actually wanted to date him or not, if that conversation might be awkward after we had apparently gone on our first date. That was my first introduction to being in a relationship and I have to honestly say I haven’t gotten any less awkward about it.
My second “first date” (the second guy I ever dated, but my first date with him). We had been friends for awhile and I loved hanging with him. He had broken up with his girlfriend a few months before and I had broken up with my boyfriend weeks before and he was totally over her because he wasn’t that into her in the first place, but honestly I was still hurting a bit from breaking up with a guy I had really loved for two and a half years. We had gone out as friends many times before, but this is when he has finally asked me if I wanted to be more than that, this time had the pressure of being a date. We went to Olive garden and it was pretty good, then we headed to Walmart because it was his sister’s birthday the next day and he needed to get her a gift. We walked around and talked for a bit then he dropped me off at my house, no kiss he made sure I got home safe, but he had to go see his sister. I married that guy.